So, about a month ago, I asked for fans and friends to send me content ideas. I then received an email from some random guy from xpeeps:
Hi there.
I saw on xpeeps that you were/are looking for content ideas and were asking what’s something we’ve all wanted to see. I have one, but you won’t like it/will say no.
Fuck a member. Have an auction or something. Winner gets tested and agrees to be in a shoot. Heck, even a guest photographer spot where the winner gets to “direct” you.
I’d pay serious, serious money to have a romp with you.
So ya, that’s it.
I know… I know.
I’ll be honest, I wasn’t too keen on this idea. There’s a lot of inherent problems with it, unless you have a shit load of money at your disposal and don’t mind people PAYING to fuck you. I, unfortunately, do have an issue with this. So I responded:
Unfortunately that would require also paying for said member to come out, and have us cover all expenses or it’s considered prostitution. Plus, the mandatory things I would require, most wouldn’t be ok with. Such as 2 previous clean AIDS tests from the past year, and a fully clean drug screening, as well as recent standard std tests.
I hoped would get him to back off about it. It didn’t.
Actually, you just stipulate in the “rules” that the person has to make arrangements etc for themselves. That way, they pay for their transportation and their own accommodations etc. And as far as the prostitution thing goes, you just stipulate in the rules that winning the auction is not a guarantee or promise of sex, but for your time. That way, it’s all legit/legal etc. I’ve seen it on sites before, where they do a “Win a date” or “Win a guest photography spot” kind of deal.
You’d put all your stipulations in the rules section “If you win, you must provide…” I will say, I don’t understand the drug test so much. I have my medical card for a very painful knee deformity, but I’m not a junky or anything of the sort. Plus, anyone worth meeting offline etc will be happy to oblige to your needs — including me.
I was just trying to be helpful and to offer ideas. This is legal, would make you money, AND give you content. It’s like a trifecta of win.
Good luck, Athena.
Apparently he’s unaware of the definition of the word ‘legal’. Paying for sex, even as an entry to a contest, is prostitution and not legal in 99% of the US.
It’d been a month since I heard anything. I had completely forgotten about it, to be honest. Until this evening, when I received this in my inbox:
Lets face it, you’d rather complain about the problem and get the attention and well-wishes than actually do anything to really solve the problem. The reason this is clear is because when I offered a simple and legal solution, you shot it down well.. for no real reason at all.
have fun being an attention whore — who has problems piling up and she ignores solutions. Good luck with that hun.
Huh? Do What? Because I didn’t choose your idea, I’m some how ignoring solutions?? Because I won’t do something OBVIOUSLY ILLEGAL? …. I’m confused at your logic, good sir.
No, I don’t want to fuck a stranger. Why is this a problem? Go away. Seriously. I’m the attention whore? You are suggesting I prostitute myself out illegally under the guise of a ‘contest’. I prefer being ethical, thank you.
So the full answer comes out. I was trying to be nice. I was trying to not be a bitch. But he brought it out. And then brought it out again:
What the “problem” is, is that you’re scamming folks. You’re bitching about problems, legit or not, that are easily solved. You’d rather bitch about the problem then actually solving it. You solicited suggestions and a damn good one was made. Sadly, since it may solve our problem, thus potentially ending your current problem(s), you look for a way to dismiss it.
Face it, you’d rather bitch about the problem then actually solve it — while accepting token paypal payments from strangers. Convenient — so long as they keep ponying up with money to help, you’ll happily bitch about alllll these “problems” you have.
Truth is, you prefer to complain and seek peoples’ attention.. as well as their money.
Again with the bullshit. Ugh. Some people just don’t know how to stfu. I am so fucking confused at this point, seriously. I am at a total loss….
Scamming people? You are fuckin crazy dude. Seriously.
And this ‘suggestion’ you made, even YOU said I wouldn’t like. You are either on some serious drugs or need to be on some. Stop emailing me or I will have to report you. Any contact made after this point will be reported to the authorities. You have serious issues man, and you need to see a shrink. You obviously see the world of porn as something it’s not. And just so you know, I am no taking advantage of people. I provide a service (i.e. porn, web design, what have you) in exchange for their money.
The paypal donations were for an entirely different thing. I didn’t BEG for donations, and in fact, I think I only posted ONCE asking if people could help. Sorry, there is no union or health care for the porn industry, outside of working for a big studio. I am 100% independent and will stay that way, as I like having a choice over what I do, something you obviously aren’t keen to. You’d rather throw an idea at someone and if they turn it down, you take it personally and start attacking them. Get a life man. And stay away from porn. It obviously turns you into an irate douchebag who seems to think their opinion is the only one that matters.
I still haven’t figured out if he’s ON drugs or just needs to be. And his ego, my GOD. The only reason he would have acted out like that, to someone he has never said two words to before, is if he honestly felt this was the way he was finally going to get to fuck me, or his ego is so easily bruised that he can’t take rejection on something even HE said was going to be a fail plan. *shakes her head* Mr. William, I have only one suggestion: Get a life, and stop emailing people in the industry and getting pissed when you don’t get to use your little scheme to your own advantage. Either that, or sit down the crack pipe.
**UPDATE**
He emailed back, even though I said to not contact me again. Looks like I’ll be contacting google tonight with his email address and the proof that he is cyberstalking me:
Right. I’m the crazy one.
Yes, I said you wouldn’t like it because I know you’re an attention whore who isn’t really looking for suggestion/ideas/solutions — you’d just rather bitch. I knew I was presenting a very helping solution to someone who isn’t interested in solutions, hence, why I knew you wouldn’t like it.
Right, they’ll see you being abusive, argumentative, and bating me into a response. You can’t tell someone “after this I’m going to report you” then spend two paragraphs berating and antagonizing them.
Considering you have NO CLUE how I see “the world of porn” it’s rather silly and quite absurd of you to pretend you have any understanding of how i see anything.
You don’t need a union to treat paying members of your site, who are trying to be helpful, with some amount of respect. Sorry, independent or not, all starlets sell a product and in the amateur world of porn, one would think it’s beneficial for starlets to be at least polite and respectful to paying members.
I actually didn’t take it personally at all. I was trying to be helpful to someone who was seeming reaching out for it. Yes, I’m an irate douchebag because you solicited help and I offered it, yup, all me, I’m a douche.
I’m going to go ahead and block unknown emails, because this is ridiculous and I don’t appreciate being threatened by someone whom I tried to help.
i said good day!
I love how he’s so convinced that an ILLEGAL FUCKING ACT is somehow a helpful suggestion, that I’m evil and an attention whore because I said no. I was perfectly 100% nice and cordial until he started being a total drag on my stellar mood… I take that back. He made my mood better. To know there are people out there who get so worked up over me for absolutely NO reason, makes me realize that there’s at least 1000x as many people who enjoy my work. HAH. fuck off loser.
